Most of us--men who are into other men--have had to figure things out on our own to "fit" or "pass" in the world. Dominated by religious dogma and social stigma, our desire for other men has been fragmented, compartmentalized--broken up--and channeled into promiscuity or total fear of intimacy. Times, they are a changing, and yes, we have come a long way. But even among those in long-term relationships--or married to either men or women--speaking openly about their unique or unexplored desires and kinks is taboo, unless you are part of a community like BDSM, where communication and consent are key. Establishing connections that feel 'wholesome' is a challenge, especially when fear of rejection, ideas of 'being too this' or 'not enough that' dominate our inner chat.
This is what we need to heal from and a path to getting there is what my work provides.
Tailored to the individual, the BODY & SOUL sessions I offer aim to take care and release physical discomfort through a process that stimulates the (re)balancing of the male and female energies within the body. Activation of the parasympathetic nervous system is key for any process of relaxation and healing to occur so we will work on this through mindful breathing and touch, gradually letting go of mind and body control in order to awaken the kundalini creative energy that lies at the base of the spine.
Journeying, the shamanistic practice of 'visiting' higher and lower modes of consciousness, is at the heart of the experience, and we will be guided in the process by a soundscape--a carefully assembled playlist-- to assist us as emotional and spiritual guide. Elements of LEATHER, which can be as simple as a well-deserved spank! are mindfully incorporated into the sessions. Of course, we will always discuss this in person at the session itself.
Sessions in NYC are best experienced at my studio in Manhattan Midtown West but I can come to see you on a case-by-case scenario. If you're visiting New York City, do try to come to my space. And if you catch me in your city whenever I'm traveling, rest assured I'll do my best to create a space that feels homey and new at the same time.
No prior experience in Gay Tantra, BDSM or Shamanism is necessary to book an appointment.